Month: December 2025
When Parents Praise Other Kids in Front of Their Own: The Lesson I Learned the Hard Way
I was listening to a psychologist recently who said something that stopped me cold: When a parent talks up other kids in front of their child, cousins, friends’ kids, classmates, especially in a repeated, “look how great they are” way, the child can quietly internalize it as:“I’m not the one you see. I’m not the…
RapidCents Technologies: Building a Security-First Payments Platform (for Engineers)
I’m Mani Rahnama, founder of RapidCents. I get a lot of questions from developers and security folks about what’s “under the hood” , not the marketing layer, but the actual engineering decisions behind the RapidCents system and why we’ve been so aggressive about security from day one. Payments is a hostile environment. You’re operating in…